Sunday, December 28, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #306 - Best Christmas Songs - 2014

Aaaawwwwwwwwwww.......... The Feeling of Christmas is sooooo Good.
Thank You Jesus!
Without YOU, There won't be Christmas.

 

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Best Christmas Songs - 2014

  

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Sunday, December 21, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #305 - 3 Hours of Christmas Music Classics

Hey Hey!!!
The Sunday Before Christmas!
Then Season I love the Most!!!!!!!!!!!!

May your Christmas be spent with the Ones you Loved the Most.......


Merry Christmas Everyone!!!

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Sunday, December 14, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #304 - Brave ~ Sara Bareilles

Be it a Step Forward or A Truth Be Told
Courage is needed
And where does Courage come from?
Within you,
Deep inside of you......
The NEED to Break Free from that Invisible Cage you are in.
It could be a Cage of being Maglign
It could be a Cage of being Financially Burdened
It could be a Cage of being Trapped in Someone else's Clock
It could be a Cage of being UnLoved
Whatever your Invisible Cage might be,
Honestly, I Want to See You Be Brave.........




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Sunday, December 7, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #303 - Human ~ Christina Perri

We are only Human,
There is a limit to the amount of hurting words that are hurled on us.
 Don't take us for granted just because we kept quiet,

When we chose to ignore, it does not mean we are dumb.
When we chose not to fight back, it does not mean we are weak.

We just chose to use our energy on people who deserves it more...
We just chose to speak with people who are willing to listen...





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Sunday, November 30, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #302 - Try ~ Colbie Caillat

Be Yourself
Be TRUE to Yourself

And the right people will come to you...
We are not teeth, so STOP living in others' mouths....




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Sunday, November 23, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #301 - When Can I See You Again ~ Owl City

1 week with USA partners...
From eating to visiting tourist spots to training to partying to hugging to laughing and tearing, we did it all.
Every day spent with them was so precious. With as much unwillingness to see them go in my heart, I know they have to fly back eventually.
John and Yvonne, thank you for giving us so much knowledge, love and care.
We will miss you two......... *super hugs*
Have a safe trip tomorrow.........

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Sunday, November 16, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #300 - Endless Love ~ Lionel Ritchie & Diana Ross

The long awaited day has finally arrived.
The day I meet my senior partners, who are a couple too, from America.
They have coached hubby and I for more than 8 months through Skype and GoToMeeting.
Yet, we have never shook hands.
The feeling of so close, yet not close enough, is a very strange feeling.
It felt like meeting a pen pal for the first time.
Or going on a blind date.

Its both exciting and nerve racking too.
*laugh*


When I asked them what song represents them, the romantic hubby said this was the song......
So this week's Song Sharing Sunday is dedicated to the two of you....




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Sunday, November 9, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #299 - Untitled ~ Simple Plan

One Word ~ When?!
When will all these end????!!!!

Can stop already???
Enough already???
Stop NOW!



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Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Did You Know - Strawberries

Did You Know  
Folic Acid in Strawberries is known to Prevent Birth Defects?

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #298 - A Sky Full Of Stars ~ Coldplay

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAREST FIRSTBORN!
As requested, here's the song you wanted me to post today.......
Love you lots!!!



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Sunday, October 26, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #297 - Sad Song ~ We The Kings

Dedicating this song to hubby....
Not any special occasion
Just want him to remember that without him, I feel I'm Half of A Whole....
Thank you for completing me.
*Big Bear Hugs*



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Sunday, October 19, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #298 - Good Time ~ OWL CITY ft. CARLY RAE JEPSEN

Yeah Yeah Yeah!
We Always have a Good Time together, whenever my Overseas Partners come over to Singapore.
"We don't even have to try, its always a good time! Woah ~ oh ~ oh ~ oh....its always a good time!"



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Sunday, October 12, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #296 - Bang Bang ~ Jessie J, Ariana Grande and Nicki Minaj

My boys had been watching two of her TV shows, which I totally cannot understand why.
The moment speaks, I wish I could switch off the TV.
I just find her voice or the way she speaks really annoying.

Until my elder boy introduced this song of hers!!!!
Woah!
Totally dumbfounded!
Its a TOTALLY DIFFERENT GIRL when she sings!!!

You know who I'm talking about?
yes.....
The 21 year old Ariana Grande!



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Sunday, October 5, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #295 - Pompeii ~ Bastille

Walls keep tumbling down...
But I must keep standing up...
Know that feeling?
The feeling of tiredness yet I have to stay strong...
But its the Ultimate Dream that I long for when I close my eyes, that makes all the bruises and pain all worthwhile.
 




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Sunday, September 28, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #294 - The Climb - Miley Cyrus

Ever since Katy Perry's "Firework", there isn't another song that can bring me to tears easily....
until I heard this song.

Yes, its an old song but I didn't get to hear it UNTIL I attended one of my International Online Shopping Mall Business trainings.

Its the words that touched my soul :

I can almost see it
That dream I'm dreaming But
There's a voice inside my head saying
"You'll never reach it"

Every step I'm taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking
But I
I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose
Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb

The struggles I'm facing
The chances I'm taking
Sometimes might knock me down But
No, I'm not breaking
I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I'm gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going
And I, I gotta be strong
Just keep pushing on

'Cause
There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose
Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb
Yeah.......

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Somebody's gonna have to lose
Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb
Yeah......

Keep on moving
Keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It's all about
It's all about the climb
Keep the faith
Keep your faith
Whoa.....





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Sunday, September 21, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #293 - 梁詠琪 - 給自己的情歌

Not a fan of hers, but really like this song of hers.... makes me wanna sing along





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Sunday, September 14, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #292 - 今生今世 - 張國榮

When I think of a smile that will melt my heart, he just came to mind.
And so I thought, I might as well post one of his songs.






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Sunday, September 7, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #291 - All Of Me ~ John Legend

Another lovely piano piece to accompany me through the night.....





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Sunday, August 31, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #290 - Maps ~ Maroon 5

His voice, So unique.
The moment he sings, you know its him.
I have YET to find one song, sung by him, which would NOT make me say.......
Love....LOVE....LOVE!!!!





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Monday, August 25, 2014

Want a Better Life? Start Visualising!

Decided to do a post dedicated to those who are unhappy with their current life.
To those who aspire to have a better life for themselves or their families.


2009 was the big turning point in my life
The year I Unleashed the Power Within me through Tony Robbins.
He taught me something very powerful and it changed my life Tremendously!
The power of Visualizing!


Though the video below may not be from Tony Robbins, but the things that were said gave me goosebumps as it brought memories of me among the thousands in that big hall listening to every word Tony Robbins said over those 4 nights.







The following are the key points from the video, with some of my added thoughts:

***
We, as humans, has something that no animals have, and that is called IMAGINATION.
Imagination allows us to see 'it' BEFORE it happens.
Go into 10 years later, 20 years later, and 'see' yourself actually becoming the person you want to be.
Take 30mins.
Go into a room.
Find a quiet corner.
And start imagining......

Its not just you who have problems and issues to settle.
Everybody who has ever been great and successful,
has obstacles to overcome and barriers to climb.

Live in your future.
Go into your future.
Stop focusing on now.
Stop talking about the past.
Go into YOUR Future.
Where you want to be many years from now.
Who you want to be..........ultimately.....

Go into the future every day.
Close your eyes and start visualizing.
What you are to be, you are now becoming.
So you have to use your imagination.
Your imagination have to take you beyond the pain, the trouble, and take you to the next level.
We have to see ourselves there, long before it happens.

I have to have FAITH to believe the things that I see 10 / 20 years from now, that one day I will be successful.

Sometimes its going to be hard
You look around you and you don't see evidence of success
You got to BELIEVE that ONE DAY WILL BE YOUR DAY!

When you are tired and you feel like giving up.
You need to press on and BELIEVE.

IF you quit, NO DAY WILL BE YOUR DAY!

Its important to learn from each and every one of your mistakes.
Fail, yes.
But get up and try again
Fail, yes.
But continue to move forward.
Fail, yes.
But NEVER EVER Give Up that Dream!
The Dream of who you ultimately want to be, what you want to give to your family, your children, your loved ones, yourself.

You HOLD ON!
Get tired? I say get doubly tired!
Its worth it when you FINALLY get there.
When I looked back at the tears I fought, the heartache, the headaches and eventually get to where I want to be, that sweetness of success is BEYOND DESCRIPTION!
Its Worth It!
HOLD ON!

I would NEVER have reached my goal, if I hadn't used my imagination.

***
FEAR is NOT REAL!
The only place that fear can exist is in our Thoughts of the Future
It is a PRODUCT of our IMAGINATION
Causing us to Fear things that are NOT Present and May NOT Ever Exist!
Fear is a CHOICE!

Only those who is going Too Far,
Can possibly find out how far one can Go!

The dream has to be so Clear that every morning when you wake up,
You Step right into your dream!
Every day you wake up,
You have to start with that VISION!

And the 1st Step for me,
Was Seeing Something I Was Not,
Before I was.

YOU CAN DO IT!
Where you are is TEMPORARY!
You will not be there for the rest of your life!

There is no reason to have Plan B
Because it distracts from Plan A.

I don't want to see what I think I can do
I don't want to see what I think I can be
I want to see what my LIFE would look like when I go further than anyone would.

ITS IMPOSSIBLE TO ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING WITHOUT PAIN!

BELIEVE that there is still Time
So long as there is still breath in your nostrils
So long as you can still wake up in the morning

Before anyone else in the world Believes in you
You Have To Believe In Yourself!

You got to do what Works for you.
No one has the right to stop you
No one has the right to tell you that you can't.
Only you decide What you Really Want.

You are where you are because of who you are
If you want to get to somewhere else, you have got to change something!
Change that something and
Start Visualizing Now!

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #289 - Rude ~ Magic

So happy for a friend of mine who finally got the girl of his dreams.
It hadn't been easy for him....
Pretty much like what this song is all about...
Congrats man!!!

Wishing the two of you happy marriage and lifelong blissfulness........





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Sunday, August 17, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #288 - Kiss The Stars ~ Pixie Lott

Feeling really happy and wanna kiss the stars tonight!
Hope this week had been a great week for you too!





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Sunday, August 10, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #287 ~ What Do You See

It was Singapore's National Day yesterday.
The first time the four of us stayed home to watch the National Day Parade.
Regardless how much citizens complain, on this day, everyone stand together as
one people, one nation, one Singapore.......






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Friday, August 8, 2014

Men Can't Figure Out What Women REALLY Want???

Understanding woman may be a really tough thing for most men.
Well, that is because we are wired differently up there (brains).
Just like the post, which I shared last year, "A Powerful 2hours to Fix Your Marriage." , women or men are really NOT difficult to understand.

The crucial point is did you take TIME to understand?

Hubby understands me very well.
Sometimes, TOO MUCH!
*laugh*
Even when I want to give him a surprise, he knows it before its revealed.
Maybe my acting skills REALLY NEED IMPROVEMENT!

He is a man and I'm a woman.
We understand each other.
Simply because we COMMUNICATE!
Not Talk!
Not Hear!
We Speak to be Understood 
and Listen to Understand.

During the dating period and the first few years of marriage, there were misunderstandings.
Time was the issue.
We hardly have time together.
Mostly on the phone.

After we began our retail business, we had each other 24/7 almost!
That was when REAL communication began.

We learned each other's habits and TRIGGER POINTS.
We learned how far we can stretch each other's patience.
We learned what made each other happy, laugh, satisfied.

We learned....
Marriage does not end after the marriage vow was taken in the wedding suit/gown.
Marriage is a learning process that begins right after that.

Seriously,
if you tell me that you do not really understand your spouse (anymore),
check how many hours do you spend with him/her.
That is the biggest clue to your issue.

Some people probably find it WAY too hard to LEARN to understand women and hence the invention of :-------






 My first response was "Seriously?!"
We are humans!!!!
Not robots!!!
Why do we need technology or devices to help us understand our Loved Ones?!
We Need Time and HEART!!!!
Not some funny gadget!

*eyes rolled*



Thursday, August 7, 2014

Why is the Wedding Ring worn on the 4th Finger?

Ever wonder why do we wear our wedding rings on our 4th finger?
Why not any other finger?
And why does it have to be the 4th finger on the left hand?
Why not the right hand?

Someone once told me that there is a vein in the 4th finger on our left hand that leads to the heart, thus the wedding ring is worn on the 4th finger on our left hand because our spouse is the one who won our heart over. So much so that we chose to take the vow to stay with him/her for the rest of our lives.

However, I came across this video and found its explanation really impressive.
I tried!
Really INseparable!!!!



Sunday, August 3, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #286 - Cry On My Shoulder

There I go again.
Could not resist falling in love with a song that begins with the sound of piano.
Today, we celebrate my FIL's birthday.
I'll always remember the little shy smile on FIL's face, when I asked him and MIL about their love story.
This old couple had indeed gone through fire and water.
Life had not been kind to them in their earlier days together as a married couple.....but I'm glad that their hardship has a beautiful ending : growing old together....relaxed.






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Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Words Spoken Cannot Be Retrieved

Just like spilled milk.
Can you really retrieve 100% back?
Even if you soak it up with a super absorbing sponge,
what about the spots on the floor?
Even when you try your best to squeeze every drop from the sponge back to the glass,
to create back the 'look' of a glass of milk,
the quantity will never be the same as before it was spilled.

Why am I talking about this?

Because I have a lump in my throat and I hadn't been feeling good about it.
So as my faithful readers of my blogs would know, I need to spit it out.
To make myself feel better.
To act as a reminder for myself that I should NOT be such a person too.

It was not me.
I'm in no way involved.

I LOVE and TREASURE EVERY FRIENDSHIP.
Regardless how we met.
Regardless how long we chat.
Regardless of our habitat.

Probably that's why I often have friends who come to me to tell me their deepest thoughts and their darkest secrets.
Over the years, this has Not decrease in numbers.
I guessed that tells alot about how much my friends trust me and I ALWAYS REMIND MYSELF, NEVER EVER to take that trust lightly.
***Thank You****
***Hugs***

The victim came to me.
Let's call the victim 'Y'
Y told me that the person Y least expected had been having negative thoughts about Y.
Let's call Y's friend 'X'.

X and Y had been friends for decadeS.
Y had always been looking out for X.
When X needed advise, X would call Y too.

Recently, their common friend told Y that X badmouthed Y.
Let's call this common friend W.

When I heard the full story from Y,  my first thought was, what's the MOTIVES behind the actions of W?

They are common friends.
What good is there to tell Y about how X feels, when its so negative?
Are you trying to break the relationship between Y and X?
To spark a quarrel?
My question to W is "Can you handle it if it really happened?!"
Or should I say, "That was your plan, wasn't?".....

GROW UP FOR GOODNESS SAKE!
Such tale telling are for school kids "I friend you. I don't friend you. So and so said this and that about you........."

To me, even the best of friends will have something which the other does not like.
Its normal!!!
Even if they are so alike in thoughts and taste and dressing and what have you.
Haven't you heard, like poles repel?

Over the years, I have learned one VERY VERY IMPORTANT lesson.
If I did Not hear from the horse's mouth, I Choose NOT to believe.

There is always such a thing call MISUNDERSTANDING.
There are selective listeners.
There are lousy speakers, who cannot find the right words to express THE EXACT THOUGHTS.

Do you know how detrimental these 2 types of people start talking?!
The result can go 9000 feet underground.
Its that harmful.
Its that HURTFUL when what they THOUGHT they said, or what they THOUGHT they heard is being transferred to another person.

So what did I tell Y?
"Does it matter? 
Will you still care about X, even IF those words were really said? 
What do you think is the purpose of W telling you all these? 
You know X for decades, won't you think you know X better than W, who hardly talk to X in years?"

Y quietened and found the answer in Y's heart.

=========


If I heard someone tell me something bad about another person, that is his/her opinion.
I have NO RIGHT to pass someone else's thoughts.
When I am a listener, I BE A LISTENER!

Humans are loving creatures.
Humans need relationships of all sorts to find emotional rest.
So why choose to break one, when you have one to treasure?

Think!
Please!

All I can say is what W did was TOTALLY UNNECESSARY, unless W has something up W's sleeves.........which apparantly, when taken few steps back and look at the entire situation from an outsider's point of view, its highly possible.......

Then again, never assume.
Time will reveal what's hidden under W's sleeves.............



Sunday, July 27, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #285 - 好听-许茹芸

Its been a long time since I last posted a Chinese Song.
When I heard this song on the variety show today, I realised how much I missed this crystal clear sweet voice.
Not a die-hard fan of 许茹芸 , but have always loved her voice.
Its those type of voice which will make any shuffling feet stop........and listen.






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Sunday, July 20, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #284 - Raging Fire ~ Phillip Phillips

Usually, I'm pretty bias when it comes to songs and singers.
If I do not like the singer, I usually will not like his/her songs.
Could it be I've changed?
Could it be I've learned to appreciate the song even though I do not like the one singing it?
or
Could it simply be because of the lyrics, that speaks to my heart.....?

Whatever!
Its the case for this song....




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Sunday, July 13, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #283 - Safe and Sound ~ Capital Cities

When was the last time you heard a song which made you feel like rocking to the beat, the VERY FIRST time you hear it?!
For me,
it was this!




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Sunday, July 6, 2014

Song Sharing Sunday #282 - Let Her Go ~ Passenger

Have you ever sing a song with your children........in harmony?
My boys have graduated from singing Rock-A-Bye-Baby with me long ago.
This is the latest song we'll see together.

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Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Slimmer Waist, Happier Me!

I love to eat.
My friends know that.
Someone once said: "Buffet? Bring Angeline along, she'll make every cent worth it!"
*laugh*

Yet,
it comes with a price,
that weighs heavily on my waist, hip and thigh.

So heavy that I was forced to throw away some of my favourite jeans.
Heart Pain!
*sigh*
I should have kept all of them, if I knew this day would come.



If you are looking forward to see a GINORMOUS change in my waist, 
I'm sorry, 
you will be disappointed.
My change is NOT impressive, 
but its good enough for me.


Slimming down is not a destination, its a continuation.

Its a lifestyle
Its a mindset
Its a choice



I managed to get a few centimeters off my waist over 3 months because of 6 simple rules
  1. Detox the natural way for 1st 7 days (I believe 90% will give up here. So if this fails, the results will not be ideal)
  2. Eat More, But Eat Right (NEVER STARVE NOR BE HUNGRY! I eat almost every 2-3 hourly and that includes SUPPER!) I LOVE THIS! The more I eat, the slimmer I get! Thus, I do not need to give up my love for biting and chewing. So if there is buffet, I'll still be there! *huge laugh*
  3. Little Exercise, But with Variety (You wanna slim down, you've got to firm up. No running from it.)
  4. Journal (Keep track daily)
  5. Someone to WATCH over you (Give advise, suggestions and encouragement when you deviate from what needs to be done)
  6. 7-8 Hours of Sleep every day 

My results would have been better, if I had stick to 7-8 hours of sleep daily.
In the past 3 months, the days I had 7-8 hours of sleep, were less than 10.
I either sleep too little, like 3 hours or sleep too much, like 12 hours.
*palm face*

I am not a professional, so I did not know what was the right way to take a good photo of my before and after.
All that I know was to grab those NUMBERS on the measuring tape.

It all began with 52.2kg at the beginning of April 2014.
I had problem buckling one of my most comfortable jeans.
My most comfortable jeans became uncomfortable, especially after my dinner meeting with friends.

****ALL PHOTOS were taken 
in the morning 
before food 
and after poo-ed.




I had such encounters before and each time, I had to throw my jeans away.
I REALLY liked this pair of jeans very much and was not ready to let history repeat itself.

So I made up my mind to STOP this jeans-throwing ritual once and for all.
I decided to slim down my waistline and lower abdomen.

As I focused on those two areas, I noticed that my hip size shrunk too.
Then followed by my thighs.
Well, hip and thighs were not my issues to begin with, but it was definitely a bonus to have those two parts slimmed down too.

After a week of Detox plus a week of corrected lifestyle, my weight starts to show results.
However, my aim is on INCHES on the measuring tape and 
Not the KGs on the weighing scale.

 



NEVER did I once had to weigh any calories before I eat.
I eat almost anything that is NOT processed or canned or carbonated. (Sadly, I do not have a say in what I eat every Sunday when I go over to my in-law's place. *sigh*)
And I do not like to exercise much either.
I am just a really lazy person! *laugh*

So what I had been through fits my Always-Eat-Out and Don't-Cook-At-Home lifestyle.

Nonetheless, I kicked a bad habit of mine.
Which is to sit down or stay seated after meals.
Now, I will get my butt off the chair after each meal and walk/stand for at least 30mins.
This small action HELPED ALOT!!!!


Towards the end of the 2nd month, my slimmer waist challenge came to a plateau.
It stopped at this for a long time :-




This is very common.
Just reactivate that slimming machine again and you'll be fine.
Keep that positivity alive in you.


During this lower body slimming journey, 
I found that there are 4 types of people who will have a harder time.

People who :
Have Digestive Issues
Are Lack of Vitamins Bs
Are Highly Carbo sensitive 
Do Not Like to Drink Plain Water


So if you belong to these categories, you will need to settle these areas too during the 3 months, as well as have a STRONGER MINDSET than others who want to get rid of BODY FATS.

Losing weight does NOT equal to losing fats.
You might just be losing water!
And that is even more unhealthy!

Losing BODY FATS and Losing WEIGHT is totally different.
What you want to lose is BODY FATS.
And sadly, most regimes out there does not tackle that.
Thus people who had slimmed down put those weight back on or even more than before.

No crash dieting please.
It JUST DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY.
We want to STAY slim and NOT be slim for a short while.


Alright,
3 months passed.
And this is my results:












Nothing impressive.
But its enough for me.

Slimming down is not a destination, its a continuation.
Its about maintaining.

Well, I can't stop growing old, but at least I want to look slim and healthy even when I'm old.

CHEERS!






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