I Find Peace when I Say It's My Fault, EVEN WHEN ITS NOT

Yes. This may sound absurd to many.
I find peace when I say its my fault, even when its not.

After going through some of the Most ridiculous things that can happen to any human over the past 3 decades of my life, I have learned that finding peace is more important than proving I'm right.

I rather take the blame than to break any relationship.
Its not about trying to be 伟大.
Its about WHAT DO I REALLY WANT?

Do I want the person to feel that I am right?
Or do I just want to prevent argument, so that I can move on, so that I can find peace?

I choose Peace over proving I'm right.

Its 2.41am, I should be asleep, shouldn't I?
But my mind is so full, I can't.
So full that it hurts.

I needed an avenue to rant.
And here I am, in my favourite place.
Allowing my fingers to dance on the keyboard once again, recording new thoughts, new feelings on my blog.

Sometimes, I prefer to be here than to talk to humans.
Because I won't see facial expressions that will make me hold back my words.
Because I won't hear replies that will make me feel I should have kept my mouth shut.

Here,
I get to speak my mind completely.
Blog, its been a long time, old friend.......but I'm back today......., thank you for giving me the freedom which I missed, once again.........


Fengshui Master said I am going to have a terrible year this year.
His only consolation to me was, stay low profile, don't try anything that is not the norm. Get pass this year quietly.

Never did I expect the impact would be THIS BIG, just few days after Chinese New Year!

I am being blamed for something that I don't even know how to defend myself.
*sigh*

There isn't any black and white to prove that that was the information I received.
There isn't any black and white to prove that I didn't twist the information I received.

Black and White is sooooooooo important my friends......
So DAMN IMPORTANT!!!!

Yet,
now, 
there is black and white to prove that the information which I passed on is wrong and fatal.

What can I say?
When there aren't any evidence to prove my innocence.....

Never mind.
I'll rather take the blame,  
 bear the cost, 
  than to lose friends.

To me, friends are very important.

Very few understand how important friends are to me.

To many, friends are friends.

To me, friends are family.

And for that reason.

I'm Sorry!

I'll bear the cost....

Song Sharing Sunday #314 - Tribute for Julie Andrews - Lady Gaga

Its so refreshing to see this side of Lady Gaga...
Growing up listening to Julie Andrews songs, this is truly a treat....

Every Song reminds me of a person, an event, a place, a smell, a taste....a secret, do you have a song to share today?

Tribute for Julie Andrews - Lady Gaga

  

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Song Sharing Sunday #313 - Traveling Soldier ~ Dixie Chicks

A friend from Australia posted this song on FB one day...and I fell in love with it instantly...

Every Song reminds me of a person, an event, a place, a smell, a taste....a secret, do you have a song to share today?

Traveling Soldier ~ Dixie Chicks

  

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Are You Behaving Like a Business Owner?

Successful Business Owners will tell you that Building a Business is Tough.
Successful Business Owners will tell you that Sacrifices are Inevitable.
Successful Business Owners will tell you that Failure is Part of the Journey......

Wise and Oh-So-True Words from Jack Ma, Founder of Alibaba (Translated from the Video below):


"Spend time to find out why businesses fail and NOT why businesses succeed."
"If you have chosen to build a business, then you should not be afraid to fail. If you Cannot Accept/Handle Failure, then DON'T BUILD a Business.

•  Failure is not as scary as you think. Failing will not put you behind bars (so what's there to be afraid of?). When you fail, stand up and try again. "

"Life is NOT looking at What You Have Achieved, but What You Have Experienced throughout your life."

True Wealth is found in Mistakes and Failures.

The Mistakes that others make, we will make too. Don't overestimate yourself (put down your ego), humans are more or less the same.

• Only when you AVOID those mistakes, you have a chance to succeed.

Characters of an Entreprenuer:

1. Positive Attitude and Mindset towards the Future
2. Does NOT Complain : Always Self-Checking, Self-Edifying.
3. Level of Determination and Perseverance is higher than normal people.

Without these 3 characters, you won't go far in building a business.

Almost ALL Successful People has this attribute :
Whenever a mistake is made or whenever they fail, these people will look at themselves, realise what was done wrongly. "I didn't do this correctly, I need to adjust myself, my methods, my behaviour. I was wrong."

• Successful People is always adjusting themselves and NOT correcting others.

Does your mindset, attitude and behaviour match that of an Entreprenuer?

Post by Speak Out HK 港人講地.

Song Sharing Sunday #312 - Bad Day ~ Daniel Powter

Need I say More?

Every Song reminds me of a person, an event, a place, a smell, a taste....a secret, do you have a song to share today?

Bad Day ~ Daniel Powter

  

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Song Sharing Sunday #311 - Perfect ~ Pink

Its so tiring to keep assuring people who simply think too lowly of themselves.
I can no longer differentiate whether is it genuine inferiority complex at work or is it just a way to get attention.
So tired.........

Every Song reminds me of a person, an event, a place, a smell, a taste....a secret, do you have a song to share today?

Perfect ~ Pink

  

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