I'm Sorry, I CANNOT SHARE my house with You!

I guessed you love my family too much!
So much so that you want YOUR FAMILY to stay with mine!
Though you and your family do not take up much space, I still do NOT want to share my home with you.
I understand that your young ones will leave once they are older, but from now till the arrival of that day, I do not welcome your offsprings to be anywhere near my boys.

 I'm Sorry, I CANNOT SHARE my house with You.............


Hanging my clean laundry on bamboos to dry, has been a practice since young. I believe its NOTHING NEW to anyone living in Singapore.

Yet, this is the FIRST TIME I had insects trying to build their nest INSIDE my bamboos!

If you turn up the volume of your speacker, you would be able to HEAR the fluttering sound of its wings, even when it was inside the container.
I can only imagine how noisy it would be if its family flies around my house in future.
I had to put a stop to it!

I'm sorry I had to capture you and ceased your operation.
I know you are ANGRY with me, as I can see you rubbing your 'fists', like how a thug would crack his knuckles before a fight. (see video at 1:06)
*laugh*

 

 
 In order to prevent its friends or relatives to come here for revenge, by building THEIR nests in my bamboo too, I had stuffed plastic bags inside all my bamboos.
I hope there will NOT be any other spots/things in my house which would pose as a home building ground for them anymore.

*fingers crossed*

We, RETAILERS are NOT beggars!!!

Today has not been a very pleasant day for me.
Right in the beginning of the day, I received an UNWANTED SURPRISE the workers did yesterday to my new house, when I paid a visit this morning.
Don't want to talk about it now, 'cos they would need to come down to verify tomorrow (today is Public Holiday = No Work).
So for now, not going to make a big hoo-ha here till I get a confirmation from them tomorrow.
====

Next, I nearly fell flat on a person when I tripped over an uneven tile in the hawker centre in Chinatown. Thank goodness I regain my balance in time.
If not, her face would be in her hot bowl of soup.
*phew*
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Then came home and saw this ridiculous request:~

Check out the original post here "Kids Study Chair For Sale"

I had been in the retail business for so many years now, I had seen all sort of customers, but THIS IS THE TYPE I dislike most!
There are customers who buy alot of things or who bought high value items from me and ask for a free item. I am more than willing to give.

Now, I am selling you an Office Chair that is (in my opinion) AS GOOD AS NEW for $10, which is ALREADY cheaper than what you can get in retail shops outside. Now you are still asking for BUY 1 GET 1 FREE????!!!!

There are many ways of Negotiating, but THIS IS NOT one of them!

If you consider this as one of the way of Negotiating, then in my opinion, this is the LOUSIEST way of negotiating!

Seriously, in MY OPINION, EVERYONE SHOULD go try be a RETAILER for once! 
At least a year!
Not the online retailer, but those that have a PHYSICAL STALL whereby you have to sit there and wait for customers to come.

Only then you will know that being a retailer is truly HARDWORK!
There is the cost of the items that we need to fork out first.
Then we spend our time sitting at the shop for 10 to 12hours, hoping to earn enough to feed the family after deducting the cost of the item and the rental for the day.

Only after YOU become a retailer, then you can be a GOOD CUSTOMER.

Only then YOU WILL THINK before you ask for such request!

We, Retailers are NOT beggars!

Treat us with some respect for goodness sake!

NO! I am Not GOING to buy a new phone!

"NO! I am Not GOING to buy a new phone!"

That was the sentence I kept repeating to hubby today, who kept bugging and persuading me to buy a phone to replace my Nokia N8, after what happened yesterday.

I was in class yesterday night. During the toilet break, I picked up my phone and tried to sms my hubby. Suddenly, while messaging halfway, it hung.
Yes, nothing could turn it off.
I could not take out the battery because this model does not allow it.
I pressed and held on to the on/off button for ages and it refused to shut down either!

While trying to fix it, I think I spoiled it further! *faint*
The 'catch' for the SIM card was gone! My SIM card kept bouncing out!

NOTHING that I do could get it to work nor let it leave that screen!

In the end, I had to borrow my classmate's phone to give hubby a ring and confirmed a place where he would pick me up after my class, which would end only in an hour+ later.

During the car ride home, I still could not get it to work.
But hubby, with his magical hands could FINALLY get it to shut down, even though one hand of his was on the steering wheel!
*clap clap clap*

And when we reached home, he managed to force the SIM card in too!
Yeah!

But this morning, he had been going, "Go lah, go buy S3 like me, then we can Whatsapp each other and all your friends."

"NO! I am Not GOING to buy a new phone, now that my phone is working well again."

"But its already showing signs that its breaking down! Go lah, go buy S3. Then we can send photos to each other."

"NO! I am Not GOING to buy a new phone, my phone is working already. Don't need to buy a new phone. I will change when its spoiled."

"Why do you want to wait till last minute? Buy now lah."

""NO! I am Not GOING to buy a new phone, S3 is so expensive, its wasting money when I still have a phone that can work."

"But its showing SIGNS that its lifespan is up. Ok, you don't want S3 also can. What phone you want? We go M1 shop check it out later ok?"

"NO! I am Not GOING to buy a new phone NOW!"

"Aiyo!!! You are very annoying leh! Stop asking me to buy a new phone lah!"

But this sentence didn't work on him.
He continued, "then just buy lor, so that when your Nokia DO break down, you have one spare phone ON STANDBY ready to be used."

*SUPER FAINT*

So do you think I bought a new phone?
*eyebrows raised*

My Facebook Account Has Been Locked!

Just 10mins ago, I was happily tagging my boys on the photos, we took at the Army Open House @ Our City 2012, which I uploaded onto my Facebook account.
Suddenly, I was interrupted by this RUDE message, popped up saying that I need to re-login before I could continue my task.

After re-login, there was a series of messages after messages asking me to verify my Facebook Account.

Hey! I'd answered ALL questions correctly, but it still refused to let me assess my account and THIS came out at the end of it all:

Anyone??!!!
Anyone out there knows what REALLY worked???!!!
I tried using the methods shown on YouTube, but errrrmmmmm.......NOT WORKING!

*Scream*

I am NOT done with my photo uploading and tagging!!!

Humph!

A TRUE Test of Tolerance

Wanna know what it is like to stay in my house?
Let me give you a few minutes of what it is like with this video...

I have to put up with this for 6 days a week.
They were given the permission to make as much noise as they want from 7am to 7pm by the higher authorities.

There was once when they continued to make so much noise even when the clock showed 7.30pm and did not show signs of calling it a day.

My hubby picked up the phone and called the authorities.
1minute after he hung up, they stopped.
Good, it worked!

Few minutes later, the authorities called back and said they were going to give them a warning.
After that, no more loud noises after 7pm sharp!
*thumbs up*

Though my house is on a higher level, it is still a problem to hear each other when all doors and windows are shut.
That is how HORRIBLE it is!
TV volumes go way up high.
Everyone is shouting at each other, but we are actually talking to one another.

My house is ALWAYS dusty.
So cleaning can only be done after 7pm.
But my house can and will only stay clean for 12hours, before everything starts all over again at 7am!
*eyes rolled*

Its definitely A MAD HOUSE!

Need to take lots of deep breathes to keep ourselves cool...
Can you imagine the frustration?
Its indeed a TRUE Test of Tolerance.....

Fooled by a PayPal Scam email! Potential value lost $164.25!

There I was, thinking that I have yet another sale...another Kaching moment... only to realised that its a Scam!

How foolish of me! *Slap Slap Slap*
*SCREAM*

Everything started on Friday.

The scammer decided to buy two of this ring from me. After we have confirmed the price of the items and his agreement to pay for the shipment, he asked for my Paypal email add and I gave, just like I would, to any of my customers.
Total cost was therefore $20.00. But he 'fake transferred' SGD 159 to me because UPS quoted me on Saturday, that the total shipment cost would be $139 to send to his country Nigeria. So $20.00 + $139 = $159.

Email correspondence between the scammer and I was so damn real! He is definitely a professional actor man!
*SCREAM*
What an idiot I was!


Then he sent me this on Saturday and I felt really uneasy:

Then, almost instantly the 'Fake PayPal' sent me these:

AND IN a SEPARATE EMAIL, I received this from 'Fake PayPal' too:

This is my second overseas customer. The previous customer did a bank transfer, so this is the first time I am accepting payment through PayPal from an overseas 'customer'.

I thought PayPal really had that policy to protect the buyers. I really naively or stupidly believed that in order to get my account credited, I must first provide the shipment number to PayPal.

So on Monday, which is today, I called UPS to ask them to come to my place to collect the rings, so that I can get the shipment number to submit to PayPal. This is the first time I am using UPS service.

Remember, on SATURDAY the guy on the customer service line told me the shipment cost SGD $139? Today, the lady on the customer service line told me the shipment cost SGD $144.25!!! What a difference!!!

Damn!
I was still thinking how am I going to tell the scammer, whom I still believe at that time was a genuine customer. I was even ready to absorb the difference if he refused to pay the difference in shipping charges after I highlight to him. That is how silly I am! And at that moment, I told myself never to use UPS again. Because of a simple quotation, there is such a big discrepancy.

I filled up lots of other forms and packed the two rings nicely. The friendly UPS guy came to my house at 2.45pm and I paid him SGD $144.25 IN CASH.

After he had left, immediately I sent the shipment number to the 'Fake PayPal' and they sent me this:

The moment they said they have to WAIT till the verification process is complete, I felt SERIOUSLY UNCOMFORTABLE.

Picked up the Phone. Called up PayPal Singapore and they told me that this is a SCAM!!! The lady on the line told me to cancel the shipment process immediately and send the 'fake' emails to spoof@Paypal.com to inform them. And the REAL PAYPAL replied that those emails were truly SCAM emails!!!

My heart dropped.

I think I had stopped breathing for a couple of seconds.

I think I had gave up my soul for that split moment.

Cold sweat exploded out from my skin.

I was so freaking scared~!

Immediately I called UPS to stop the shipment process and I asked if I would be penalised in any way. Thank goodness the answer was "NO". The customer service staff told me that the same delivery guy would come back to return my SGD $144.25 CASH and my two rings between 6pm to 8pm.

Yes, at 8pm the same delivery guy arrived at my doorstep with my cash and my items. But I felt really bad towards the delivery guy and I gave him a small token to express my apology.

My hubby feels that this scammer is NOT eyeing for the rings. It has to be something more valuable or bigger than that. He asked me to cancel my PayPal account. But I have too many things linking to my PayPal account. So I decided to change my password. I do not know if its good enough.... *fingers and toes crossed*

And all these did not stop there. 

More emails were sent to me from the 'Fake PayPal' saying that I gave them a wrong shipment tracking number and blah blah blah. They even said I should refund the 'buyer' the money because of this; and ask me to transfer the amount back to him blah blah blah....

On the other hand, the 'buyer', who is the scammer, acted as if he has no idea what had been going on and still have the cheek to ask me, "Have you sent out the items? What is the shipment tracking number so that I can track?"
*SCREAM*

How can these people live with their conscience?
Don't they have conscience at all?!
*SCREAM*

What an INCREDIBLE LESSON LEARNED TODAY!!!!

Drink Tea

I love to drink tea, but I have never expected a simple Lipton ice tea with milk could get me into this state.

This is the second time it has happened to me. The first time was last year and somehow I choose not to put the blame on that thirst quenching liquid, instead, I pointed my finger at 'stress'.

But after what happened last night, my mind changed....

I have drank all sorts of tea in the evening before, even late at night. The caffeine in the tea did not have any effect on me, the sleeping queen.
But I do not understand why a simple Lipton ice tea with milk in the evening can cause me to have sleepless night.
Yes, this is the second time the brownish liquid had cast the stay-awake-all-night curse on me.

It was 8pm+. I had a cup of simple Lipton ice tea with milk after my dinner.

And that was the beginning of my day! Yes, you are right. I was so awake. My body was beaten from the torture of a hectic Tuesday, which is the busiest day of the week for me; yet my mind was so awake I believe I can crack the nuttiest puzzle!

Went to bed at 1am+.
Forced myself to close my eyes.
Tried to hypnotize myself by visualizing jumping sheep.
3.35am I felt like I had just taken a 12hour nap.

I am doomed!
I was contemplating if I should get up and do something that will tire myself out.
But my eyes were so stressed out and I could feel the veins exploding.
I dropped the idea.

To prevent my light-sleeper partner from waking from my tossing and turning every other few minutes.
I went out with my baby-bolster and slept on my couch.

I saw the change from a dark living room to a brightly lit house.
Man!
I am still so awake!
But my body knocked out long before dawn!

I believe I did doze off for 5-10mins every now and then, but was woken real soon by my active mind again.
Thank goodness my hubby is free today to do all the fetching to and fro from schools.

So when did I REALLY knock out?
2pm+
A short 3 hour nap.

Woke up at 5pm.
Was it enough?
Of cos NOT for the sleeping queen!
In the end, I woke up with a terrible headache, an extremely sensitive nose that kept going Ahhhh-choooo and a really edgy attitude.

In short, I am a Hedgehog now!

*Scream*

This will be the LAST time I drink tea, no, not any tea, but Lipton ice tea with milk after sunset! Period!

Skin Abrasion is so painful! Ouch!!!!

Thank you everyone, who knows about my Skin Abrasion injury, for your kind words of concern. Bathing is still a painful thought.
But definitely better....

For those of you who does not know what I am talking about, you might want to read how this Kids Amaze @ Safra Jurong gave this first visit gift to me in this post "Kidz Amaze - Would I Recommend?"

I had 6 pieces of skin sliced off me. But I only took photos of the most painful 3 areas:

My MIL called me 'Lan-Fan'.
Which meant 'Playful' in Cantonese.

Well, I'm a big kid alright?! Allan and I were the ONLY adults who were running up and down with the kids and sharing every of their laughter (and tears) with them. Such experience is worth it for sure.... but hey, if you have read my blog post "Kidz Amaze - Would I Recommend?", the injuries were not caused by my playfulness alright.... *pout*

What Luck!
*OUCH!*
Will I get scars from this Skin Abrasion?

So What If You Are Getting Married!?

Getting Married is something to celebrate!
The union of two.
Something very blissful and romantic.
But it does not mean that you are king of the world and do not put the 'happiness' of others at heart.

I was still doing my usual emailing at 4.50am before I jumped up a little from my chair because of sudden loud honking!
The environment was so quiet, you can hear a pin dropped when my hands are not 'rattling' on the keyboard.

I looked at the time and wondered why would there be a traffic jam at this hour??!!
Went to the window and realised that the honking came from 3 cars.

The wedding car led the way into the driveway below my block of flat, followed by two 'best men cars'.
The 3 were going "Honk Honk Honk and Hooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnkkkkkkkkkk"

I believe they were here so early to fetch the bride because of the Hokkien or Teochew tradition of fetching bride before sunrise.
But hey!!!
Do you need to HONK AT THIS HOUR to announce your arrival???!!!
It is sleeping time for 99% of the people! mind you!!!

So what if you are getting married?!
Does that give you the right to be inconsiderate??!
I heard babies cries right after the honking started.... probably woken up but the abrupt break of silence.

I wanted to shout at them when they get out of the car, but I paused and thought - "If I did that, I am no better than them...."

*shake head*

A Waste Of Time?

During my days in Canon, I had been supporting clients of all sorts. Now with my new 'job', I am supporting clients of all sort again. And in both cases there is always this group of people which really piss me off!

They have already done something. But they would ask me how to do it. To me, their main concern is to DOUBLE CHECK if their steps were done correctly, I would rather they tell me what they have done and check with me if their steps were correct, and NOT to just ask me "How do I do this?"

'Cos this simple question tells me blankly that the questioner does NOT know what to do.

To give instructions to all the steps can be really tedious on my end. But I am ALL WILLING to help lost souls. Thus such tedious is no big deal at all, so long as the lost sheep is back to the herd.

But for people who have done it already yet just want to 'double check' their steps and NOT tell me so, I would presume that they do not know what to do and I had to list from step 1 to step 10 for them.

Don't you think this is a waste of my time? 'Cos this person is taking up my time from someone else who REALLY needs my help. Or can I just excuse this person and label him/her as an inexperience questioner?

*eyes rolled*

***A little rant from a very committed customer support personnel.

Giant Shoppers exchange cards for Mahjong Set - 3

Oh Man! This is harder than I thought!
Blessed Mom has an extra 西, and the super generous lady is willing to give it to me.

But there is no use to get that card if 发 can't be found. *pout*
Anyone has an extra 发 and would like to exchange with me?

For those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about: Read this post.

The Worst Mistake

The Worst Mistake that anyone could make is to Jump to Conclusion without knowing the Real Facts.

I guess that's just life isn't it?
Friends and Family members do misunderstood us sometimes.

Yet I believe in something.
If a lie was told, it will be revealed sooner or later.

I used to jump to conclusions and I paid a high price for it. Even after I had apologized, the crack in the relationship remained. Its a STUPID thing to do. And I had 'Trained' myself to STOP doing that.

I ask when I am in doubt.
I seek answers till I am satisfied.
That's me.

To be maligned is a horrible feeling. The worst part is I wasn't even given a chance to speak and I was condemned.

What keeps me alive and going is a Clear Conscience!
I do NOT need to answer to anyone!
I am NOT obligated to answer anyway! Because in the first place I was NOT even given a chance to explain myself!

Now, how unfair is that!?

Do a judge put a man to be hanged without allowing him to fight for himself? NO!
So why are people so cruel to people?!

.................................

Porn Site! Out You Go!

Why did I take so long to realise this?
Why did I take so long to explore it?
The simplicity of choice.
The power of control.

YOU!
Changing commenter names every time you visit.
With your beautiful Japanese nude girl on your front page.
Writing Japanese words which I can no longer understand.
I had returned that language back to my Japanese teacher a decade ago, don't you know?

Every day my task is to get you off my site.
Every day I slap the 'no entry' sign onto your face.
I tried to ward you off, but ended up penalizing the innocent others.

Took 2 months to realise that I could direct my bullets at you.
Took 2 months to explore the possibility of just aiming at you and not hurting the rest of the commenters.
2 Months!
*faint*

Why did I take so long?!
To simply put a tick on ONE box and BAR you from my site forever!!!
*shake head*
2 Months!
Too long.....
*shake head*

Porn Site!
Spammer!
Out You Go!
FOR GOOD!!!!

My Sony Ericsson Was Hungry

2.45am,
I checked my Sony Ericsson phone for the last time, to see if I have unread messages.
No messages
No wall paper (My artwork)
No photos
No videos
No ring tones
No message tones

No
NO
NO
NO
NO!!!!

EVERYTHING WAS GONE!!!!
My Sony Ericsson Was So Hungry, She Ate Everything!

She ate the photos of my children's happy moments
She ate the videos of my boys doing the Michael Jackson moves
She ate the songs which I loved so much
She ate them all up for a heavy supper
My Song Ericsson was THAT Cruelly Hungry!!!

at 2.45am
ready for bed
eyes are tired
"could it be my eyes playing tricks on me?"

I double checked
I triple checked

EVERYTHING WAS REALLY GONE!!!

I admire my calmness
I didn't scream
I didn't yell
I didn't run to my sis and cry

I put down the phone
Still in shock
Still lost for words
I went to bed thinking
"No point crying over spilled milk..."

But I'm the innocent party, I DIDN'T EVEN touch the milk,
my Sony Ericsson drank it all up!
*Deep Deep Sigh*

***Possibility of foul play by kids were ruled out.

A Big Sea, am I?

You, you, you
So many of you came to me
Through the days of my life

The depressed you
The angry you
The helpless you
The fearful you
The disappointed you
The guilty you
So many of you....

I thank you for your trust
Yet, how can I tell you that I wish I had not your trust

A Big Sea, am I?
You wrote a secret note
Slipped it into the bottle
Corked it

Threw right into me
I couldn't retaliate
It came as a surprise

I was moved by your trust
You decided not to bury it under the sand
You decided not to burn it
But you decided to share with me
I Thank you

Bottles after bottles
All my life
They have been thrown to me without warning
I promised that it will be safe with me
I promised and I kept ALL of them

Yet nature has its way around
The wind blew
The current was strong
Your bottle was back to shore
There is a saying that goes 'Truth Will Out'

I DID NOT make the wind blew
I DID NOT raise the current
That's The Law of Nature
That's what's governing this world we live in

Your bottle was discovered
Your secret uncovered

Will you blame me?
When it wasn't even me?
Cos I have NO VOICE in my throat
I don't even have a throat

You trusted me
So you came and poured your heart
Yet where have that trust gone to now?

****All my life, some people call 'this' a talent, others see 'it' a gem. The trust that people see in me; to tell me their deepest secret. Their darkest thoughts. Their most regretful moment. Yet, I see this as a burden. To know so many secrets.

This sea is so filled with bottles.
The tide has rose to flood the land.
This sea is burdened.
And this burden gets heavier with each new bottle thrown into my arms.

A Big Sea, am I?
You think I have no threshold?
Let me tell you,
I HAVE.
And now I wish I could dry up....

Why are there BRAINLESS PEOPLE???!!!

Some people talk without thinking about the consequences.
Some people act without thinking about the results.

Time and Time again, I have said,
Life is full of choices, either make it, or break it.

Seriously, no choice is right or wrong.
Just different outcome.
Its our emotions that determine if its deemed right or wrong.

But guess what?
I'm not the one making the choice today.
I'm not the one talking.
I'm not the one acting.

Someone made a SILLY CHOICE to talk about me and act upon me!
Guess what?
I do not even know this person?!!!
*faint*

Its 'SOMEONE' who said something in PUBLIC that could CUT my income stream, ruin my reputation!
Its these 'brainless' people who thought their words of praise could lift me up. But the truth is her words had crashed me down to HELL level 18!

OMG!
This world is truly Rojak!
A mixture of all sorts!
Good to be eaten.
Good to be thrown.

Why do brainless people exist???!!!!
*AAAaaaaaaarrrrrggghhhhhhhhhh*

The worse part is, she is NOT CONTACTABLE!!!!!
I had met a GHOST!
*faint*

I Love To Blog!

There is a reason why I think I will never leave the Blog World....
I just Love to Blog because it is an avenue for me to vent my anger and frustrations.
(my faithful readers, please bear with me, 'cos for the benefit of my new readers, I'll have to explain this again. *giggle*)

I am a person who CANNOT accept a tinge of unhappiness in me. I need to keep talking to different people or 'things' about the unhappy event....
So much so that I get numb to the incident that I NO LONGER feel upset anymore.
Love me?
Hate me?
That's Me!

So blogging is a great tool for me to SHOUT IT OUT!!!

Got my hint for today's post?
Yup!
I'm going to SHOUT IT OUT!

I'm pissed!

How do you define a friend?
No!!
Seriously!!!!
Under what circumstances do you call a friend, "friend"?

I consider myself a nice person.
But I am NOT STUPID!

Do NOT use my relations to try to benefit yourself.
Do NOT attempt to use my network to give yourself a headstart above the rest.
Do NOT even try to get info from me so that you can EARN all the credits.

I can be REALLY NICE,
BUT,
I am NOT stupid enough to be used like a pawn on your chess board!

When I go all out for a friend, I do without you telling me.
I do it wholeheartedly as if it was a matter of MY life and death.

When I go all out for a friend, I do it without thinking of getting being rewarded.
I do it out of my own free will.
Even if I get back-stabbed (which is so damn often *eyes rolled*), I only have myself to blame.

BUT....
Do NOT order me to do it.
Do NOT think that I am obligated to do it for you.
I know you think that I SHOULD be doing it for you, all because you call me your "friend".
You were upset when I didn't do as YOU TOLD ME TO....
I'm sorry....

I am apologising NOT because I regret not doing as you 'instructed'.
I am apologising because You understand too little of me....

Know my BACKGROUND.
Know the environment that I grew up in.
Know the businesses that I had gone through.
I am a TOUGH NUT to crack behind that supposedly 'nice' appearance.
(ok, I know I am going to lose some readers after this post....)

This is my BIG Shout Out Box...
It is also my relief corner....
I just had to get rid of that awful feeling....
And I am so glad I did this.

I feel better now.....
*Smile*

Malware

I TOLD YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE on Tuesday or I'll Snap at you? Didn't I?!!

Ok, humans are staying a distance from me, but I had forgotten to speak the language of virus! AAAaAAAraaaaarrrrrrgggghhhhh!!!!!

Today, one of my 'oldest and most faithful' reader sent me an email saying that when she hopped over to my Parenting blog for the past 2 days, a message came up "Malware Detected".

Fantastic! *eyes rolled*
If only malware works as well as tupperware!
Damn!

Immediately I sort help from my hosting company. They are looking into it and may just at the wave of their magic wands REMOVE the tracking virus COMPLETELY!
Yet, if it has been 'eating' too much flesh from my blog,
I may need to REFORMAT EVERYTHING!!!!

Damn it!!!

2-3 years of sweat and blood of hard work and emotions all gone because of an idiot Malware?!
AAAaaarrrrrrggghhhhhhhhhh...

What an Awful way to start my Morning!!!!
Damn!
And guess what?
I ran out of Chocolates too!
*eyes rolled*

**Suhanya, Thank you my dear for letting me know... 'cos if it stays in my site for too long, it can be disastrous..... Thank you... Love ya!

Snap!

Leave me Alone!

Ok, I have given out the warning.
Come near and you are going to get bitten!
Step on my 'tail' and I will make sure Yours is chopped off!
Snap!

*Roar*

Saw red two days ago.
I know how horribly bad tempered I can be during the first week of the red flood.

Allan knows me well enough.
When he notices that 'smoke' is coming out from the top of my head, he would try to stop whatever that's causing the fire to burn within.

It could be Himself being the cause too!
"Ok, we'll talk about this another day."
He's smart, he moves away.

It could be the Kids.
"Come boys, tell Papa what you want.... Papa will do it for you..... Don't disturb Mommy."

It could be a phone call.
He would sit and listen to my @$%#@.
Not giving any suggestions or comments, least I became angry with him instead.

Clever man is he.
He stays far far away from me during these few days.

During such days of the month,
I am extremely quiet,
Tired,
More naps.....

I use more energy on my mind power to prevent myself from adding more charcoal to the fireplace.
I do make extra effort.
I try....
I do...

Still, warning is out.
"Leave me Alone for at least 3 days from now!"

Hair Fall, Dandruff Dilemma

Hey Friends, I SERIOUSLY need to hear YOUR VIEW on this. Many thanks....

More than 10years ago, I found a shampoo which completely controlled my dandruff and itchy scalp problem. It was Head and Shoulders. Even though many told me that it would make my hair fall more rapidly, hence balding sooner. I observed. Nope, it did not happen to me. I had 'normal' hair loss. Ever since I had started using it, I had not changed till few months ago.

Since the beginning of this year, I noticed my hair was thinning very badly. Likely due to late night sleep and stress. It increases its speed over the past 6 months. For those of you who had been following my blogs, the first 7 months of 2009 were simply chaotic, weren't it?!

Yet it seems that once the 'hair fall' start, there is no end to it. Hhhhmmmm.....

BaWang's commercials and posters were everywhere. I could not resist but try it. Especially when Allan dared to be the guinea pig few weeks earlier than me.

Though he complained that it gave him 'pimples' on his scalp, causing combing to be a real pain in the ***. He continued, because results were showing.

I tried.
Hmmm... not much effect.
No pimple.
No nothing.


Then I chanced upon this Korean Hair Loss Prevention Spray at my familiar salon.

I combined both.

TaaDaa!

It worked!
My hair loss was controlled PERFECTLY!
Yippee!

Happy like a little Jelly Bean, I continued using for months.

3 months ago, my friend picked out something white from my hair.
"Dandruff." my friend said.

OH SHIT!

So now what?!
My hair loss was controlled by the formidable pair, but my old problem came back to bug me.

The combination between the Korean Product and the Proctor and Gamble product was not working well at all!

Hhhmmm.... what would you do?