Global Internet Seminar

What can I say?!
One Word.....
OUTSTANDING!!!

3 days at Global Internet Seminar has truly been life changing.
I practically sign up for 'something' whenever I am at a seminar lately.
*giggle*

Had signed up for 'Never Work Again' with T. Harv Eker when I attended The Millionaire Mind Intensive last month.

Today, I signed up with this other charming man......

Here's officially introducing my new Mentor *Drum Roll* >>>>
Shaun Stenning!
Isn't he Cute!
*wink*

***Damn! I was about to blink my eyes...*pout* Awful! Nahh... I'm not the focus, its the ONE in the MIDDLE!

No no no....
I didn't sign up because of his face!
I signed up because he had 'something' that can help me achieve my goal of having Financial Freedom even sooner.
Nope!
Not telling yet.....
*snicker*

I also get to take a shot with the man who inspired me 2 years ago, to clear my 7-years of retail stuff (which had been sitting in my storeroom) on eBay.
He is none other than Adam Ginsberg !

Sorry Adam, heard you 'loud and clear' twice, but never once signed up for your package.
Still, I want to thank you for sharing those useful tips on stage which has been helping me in my sales on eBay.

Thank you!

and.....
last but not least....
the Best of the Best on stage together....





I had an OUTSTANDING weekend!
Did you?
*wink*

Memories from MMI

Yippee!
Managed to grab some 'professional' photographs taken during the 3 days.
Aaaaaawwww.....
these are great moments:

My Handsome Mentor > T. Harv Eker

One of Harv's 'Best Men'

We Sang....

We Shared....

We Massaged Each Other....

We Hi-Fived....

We Danced.....

The 5000 over Voices.....

Our Group's Celebration.....
Allan was our Group Leader. *wink*
(I think I look like a GoldFish with that big goggles on. *giggle*)

Photos are great reminders of wonderful memories....
Yet the lessons learned on this seminar will 'live out' in my life for as long as I live....

Have a 'Kaching' Weekend, Everyone!!!

Gone For Good!

Everyone has files in their head.
Some are often looked into, some are hardly flipped.

These files determine our daily decisions. We call them blueprint.

Blueprint is registered in our head through hearing, seeing and experiencing.

As I had mentioned in my previous post, my biggest reward is the removal of a stinky, moldy blueprint of mine.

For those of you who knew me from my very first blog > All About Your Child, would be very familiar with my strain relationship with my mother.
For those of you who don't, you can read 'My Story' or 'The highly commented Post'.

Having to find money for my mother was such a common 'chore', yet there was this ONE incident which I did not know was my stumbling block to achieving great wealth.

This happened when I was 13/14 years old....
My parents just had one of the biggest fight ever the night before, all because my mother has just hit her new all time high debt amount (then). Loansharks came and shamed my family.... Blah blah blah....

The next day, I could not concentrate in class. Tears just kept dripping down my cheeks the whole time. My English teacher, Miss T., requested to speak with me after school ended.
I told her nothing.
She persisted.
I could hold my tears no more.
I cried so hard, started to choke on my tears....
I let it all out....

"My mother borrowed money from the loansharks and my father is extremely unhappy with her. They had a terrible fight last night. He threatened to chase her out of the house if the money is not returned fast."

"How much is it?"

"$4,000"

"Ok. Don't worry. You take care. Don't think too much about it. Keep praying."

The next day after school, Miss T. wanted to see me again....

Passing me a thick envelope... "Here, take it. Its for you."

I opened it and saw $4,000 inside!!!!!
I had NEVER held so much money in my hands before.
They shook like crazy!!!
I pushed it back to her and said, "No, Miss T.. This is yours. We will find a way."

"No! I want you to have it. I don't want you to return. Its a gift for you. Exams are coming. I don't want to see you being affected by such things. Take! Give to your mother and settle the problem, so that everyone will have a piece of mind."

I was young.
Desperate.
Lost.
I took it
and ran home,
fearing that I may be robbed.

I handed my mother the money.
She was shocked.

I thought she was going to thank my teacher or me...
Instead she said, "Its NOT ENOUGH!"

*faint*

"How come?! You said $4,000!!" I snapped.

"I lied. I dare not tell your father the real amount. I fear that he would beat the hell out of me."

"So how much is IT??!!!" I almost wanted to slap her....

"$8,000." She confessed.

*faint*

My head was spinning like crazy.
Thousands of thoughts hit me all at once.
What am I going to tell Miss T.?
How am I going to find another $4,000?
Since, its not enough, I might as well return this $4,000 to Miss T.
Yet, paying half is better than not paying at all.
What will Papa say when he found out that its $8,000?
How?
What should I do now?
What's gonna happen?
............

It was during the last day of MMI, did I realise that THIS incident, which happened almost 2 decades ago, had been killing my financial health.....

Here's the explanation:

Because of this incident,
I am ashamed to face my teacher everyday.
I felt a sense of guilt towards her.
I felt indebted to her.
Because of this incident,
I disliked my mother even more.
I pitied myself for having a liar as a mother.
I blame the world for giving me a gambler as a mother.

Hence, in my money blueprint, the equation goes like this:
MONEY = Shame, Guilt, Indebted, Resentment, Pity, Lies, Injustice.

Thus, subconsciously, I would try to 'get rid' of my money through spending or literally giving away, so as NOT to be acquainted with shame, guilt, indebted, resentment, pity, lies and injustice.

Towards the end of the seminar, we did an exercise which COMPLETELY exorcised these unsupportive financial blueprints out of my mind.

The most beautiful part is, I had truly forgave my mother...

All these years, I blame her for giving me a bad childhood.
Which in fact, it was ME giving myself a bad childhood.

Nothing has meaning, except the meaning I give it. ~ T. Harv Eker

In life, EVERYTHING, is neutral; because there is ALWAYS 2 sides to a coin, a paper, a plank.
Its all a matter of which side are you looking at?

When one can TRULY bring himself or herself to see from the other person's point of view.
The world become a totally different place.
Neither side is right OR wrong.
Its just a difference of strong opinions....

Last weekend's MMI, I learned that MANY of my thoughts or belief systems actually BELONGED TO OTHERS. They are not necessarily mine. Because of what others say, do or experienced, does not mean I should be affected by it.

We have the power to CHOOSE to disassociate with them.
Its all a matter of choice.

*Grin*
Once the exercise was done, I felt as light as a feather.
Completely free from burden, from hatred, from shame.....
*Grin*

Thank you Harv....
Thank you....

Millionaire Mind Intensive - Rewards

2 months ago, I had the most Outstanding Life Changing Seminar (yet) > Anthony Robbins's Unleash the Power Within.

Last weekend, I had the most Amazing Financial Life Changing Seminar > Millionaire Mind Intensive.

As promised to the man, T. Harv Eker, who changed my financial life 3 years ago, details of the Millionaire Mind Intensive will not be revealed.
Reason is simple, its an experience of a lifetime!
Which ANYONE should be there to experience and not be heard or read.

I have 4 tickets for NEXT Millionaire Mind Intensive in November 2010.
Come,
join me,
next year,
will you?

Yes, I am going again next year.
Some cannot understand why would anyone want to 'repeat' a seminar which they had attended before?
You see, Harv, is a Multi x100 Millionaire.
Yet, his secret to achieving that status is so Simple and Straight Forward, no one can give an excuse to say they do not understand.
Most importantly, his steps WORK and show RESULTS!

So next year, I will be there to do my checklist....

Irregardless how many times a person attended the same seminar, the person's mind is of a different level from the previous, hence, the person learn different things at each seminar.

Just like Allan, he went last year, but he was dying to attend again this year because he cannot wait to learn new things which would help to 'level up' his financial knowledge.
People grow only when new things are learned, isn't it?
*wink*

Though details will not be shared, my rewards from the seminar are too WONDERFUL to keep to myself....

1. I came to know many new like-minded (in terms of financial) friends from all over the world. Exchanged emails, phone numbers, Facebook...blah blah blah...
2. I truly felt how much I meant to Allan, when he shout it out in public, that marrying me was one of his GREATEST successes in life.
3. I bought Harv's New Book > 'SpeedWealth' Simple yet Effective (Just like the author) guidebook to making ANY business a success.
4. I signed up for another EXTREME seminar next year, called 'Never Work Again'. Just like the name suggested. It will be a seminar which will reveal some of the latest and most powerful passive income tools which can allow me to live a financially free lifestyle. Work only because I choose to and NOT because I have to. *wink*
5. Last, but not least, Harv helped me to dig out what exactly has been stopping me from earning more than my ability. It was an Old Old 'File' in my mind. It was deadly. And he helped me removed it COMPLETELY. Whoo-hoo!
   

This last reward is something really personal.
Nobody knew about it except my parents and my sis.
Something which I had never shared on this blog before.
In fact, the details were also not shared over at my very first blog (All About Your Child) before too.

But I will....
in my next post.....

*wink*

Have a Splendid Day Everyone!!!

This Is THE Day!

I'm off to exterminate my Poor Man's mindset
and
claim my Millionaire Mind now...
Whoo-hoo!

Have A *Kaching* Weekend, Everyone!!!!
*wink*

Millionaire Mind Intensive

Previously I was still thinking of going for the 2nd day of the Millionaire Mind Intensive after my boy's graduation ceremony ends at 4.30pm. Since the Seminar ends around 11pm, I would be able to catch another 6+ hours of powerful conditioning from T. Harv Eker.


Now, it has been confirmed that this wish had to be aborted.

My eldest niece would be celebrating her birthday that evening. So right after my boy's Preschool Graduation Ceremony, we had to head straight down to her party.

I know the importance of the 2nd day because Allan attended it last year. So I am feeling rather disappointed. I may not absorb as much as I could have on my third day, because they are progressive.

Still, disappointment does not overrule my wish to be with loved ones. So it was a natural choice of mine to go for the double celebration on this Saturday.

To me,
people are vulnerable.
people's life are unpredictable.
anyone,
young AND old,
could just disappear from this earth anytime.
So time spent with people whom I love is priority over all else.

A friend of mine died when she was 10years old during playtime.
It was a silly mistake.
And an irreversible one too.
At the age of 8,
I witnessed death of a young person.
Hence,
(since then) I told myself,
whenever I have a chance to meet up with people whom I treasure, I would go.

As for MMI, its a yearly seminar held by Peak Potentials.
They had done it in small Singapore for a couple of times already, so the chances of them coming back is quite slim.
Who knows, I may just buy a ticket and fly over to US to attend it all over again next year.
*wink*

T. Harv Eker

He was the man who changed my hubby's life 1 year ago.
He was the man who changed my money management 3 years ago.
He was the man I was supposed to meet back in June 2009 in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, had it not been H1N1. *sigh*

Now, He is the man I'm going to meet FINALLY
Still, this sentence had to end with a sigh....
'cos it clashes with my boys' performance.
So I will only be there on the 1st and the last day... *Deep Sigh*

Would I have chosen differently?
No.
My elder boy's graduation ceremony is more important.
But I MAY consider to attend the seminar after the performance ends at 4.30pm.
We'll see how it goes...

Ok, as you can see from my sidebar, my friend is giving away FREE tickets for this Seminar, so if you would like your simple mind to change to that of a Millionaire's mind, go contact him and who knows, we might just bump into each other among the 5000+ attendees!!!

*wink*

Healthy Tips 4 of 4

Ever wonder why is it so hard to commit oneself to exercise at least 3 times a week?

1. Because we ache the next morning....?
2. Because we have muscle cramp.....?
3. Because we are lazy to 'dress up', travel to the gym or the running track....?
4. Because we cannot find time....?
5. Because we simply could not be bothered?

The last one would really depend on how important it is for you to stay in shape. We hear so often that people, men AND women, are unsatisfied with at least one part of their body, yet they are not doing anything about it. I fall into this group of people too. I guess we just like to complain. If we do fix that part(s) of the body, we would have one less thing to complain about. *giggle*

But for 1-4, I realise that there are no more excuses!!!

On the last day of the Seminar, I learned about exercising to MY VERY OWN HEARTBEAT RATE.
When you exercise by monitoring your heartbeat rate, you would know if you have overdone or underdone your workout. Overdoing will cause number 1&2 to happen and it builds muscles. Underdoing means you are not burning excess fats as you wished to.

Hence, when you exercise according to your heartbeat, you won't feel physically stressed, stiff or exhausted, 'cos its what your heart/body can-handle-range. And since such awful feelings are off every time when and after you exercise, then you can STICK to staying healthy forever!!! And you could do any exercise in the comfort of your own home for only 45mins, so this solve number 3&4. If one can spend 2-3 hours infront of the TV, what is 45mins? In fact you can jog on the spot while watching your favourite TV programme!


I bought this on the very next day after the 4-Day Incredible Seminar by Tony Robbins. It was really hard to exercise within my heartbeat range at first, because it was too easy!!! *laugh* My detector kept beeping non-stop asking me to "slow-down".... "SLOW DOWN!!!!" *laugh*

First day was horrible, I either went below my range or way above. But practice makes perfect. Second day was better and third was almost problem-less to stay within range. Now, to stay in range was easy peasy.

Everyone has a different range according to your age. This is a universal formula. Even when I went to purchase the heartbeat rate detector, the salesgirl uses this same formula too.

use 180 less your age = your maximum heart rate
eg. for me, 32 (since my birthday is not over yet for this year) 180-32 =148

so my range is 138 to 148. Workout within this range for 45mins at least 3 times a week is recommended. So I have committed myself to exercise by running on the spot at home in front of my window on every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. *wink*

Remember to always warm up and cool down before and after exercising ok?

Happy Workout Everyone! *wink*

Life Will Never Be the Same Again

Indeed that is true for me. Life will NEVER be the same again.

The biggest change is not only what goes on in my mind but what goes on in my life. Yesterday, a really 'old' reader sent me an email asking how did I feel after the 4th day. She can't wait for my 'slow' updates over here, she was really eager to know... *giggle*
Thank you for your enthusiasm, JJ! *huge hugs*

And this was my reply:

*giggle* Thank you girl for this email. I'm overjoyed that my excitement could pass through the monitor screen to reach you.....*giggle*

There is a HUGE change in my life ever since the first day of Unleash the Power Within (UPW) and I am loving every moment of my life now.

From someone with a bullshit belief that I am not worthy to be happy, to someone who can find every reason to smile and laugh, my family has seen the significant change in me. On top of that, from a non-vege-cum-non-fruit eater to abstaining from meat (except seafood) WILLINGLY (for a week now), completely on fresh vege and fruit diet; I breathe better, think better, feel better, its just OUTSTANDING! Seriously, I DON'T think I'll ever touch meat again.....

Not only that, I have committed myself in doing breathing exercises and physical exercises. UPW is not just a motivation seminar. In fact its NOT. It is a seminar like a Gigantic Mirror. You learn about your TRUE inner self. You learn what triggers you to move on in life and what holds you back from achieving whatever you want; be it happiness, better relationship, financially.... Its a all rounded seminar about YOUR LIFE, which includes your health too.

Before UPW, I was hospitalised for 13 days (5+7, in a single month) with still 'unknown' causes. My liver almost failed and the pain needed morphine to stop (as you'd already know). Now, I no longer have that pain anymore, my body is MY doctor, my healthy diet is MY medication. I am completely way over the moon!

Everyday new opportunities are showing up at my door, nahhh... not literally, but you know what I mean right? *wink*

Last year, I went for Tony's Unlimited Power and my 7 years of fear in driving was eliminated in that few hours. Now, all it took was 4 days and my LIFE is completely different now. Better and Happier.... so much more to look forward to everyday, so many more reasons to sleep late and wake up early.... 'cos life is just too exciting for me now.

I am super grateful to Tony. Words can never describe...

Thank you girl once again for being such a faithful reader. Thank you.

Unlesh The Power Within - Heartbeat

Everyone has Down times.
Depressed experiences.
Discouraged moments.
Desperate encounters.
Don't you just dislike the letter 'D'??? *giggle*

During the first day, I learned an extremely powerful lesson.
"All it takes is just a heartbeat! to get yourself Up! Determined! Clear! Certain! HAPPY!!!!!"

Yes!
All it takes is a heart beat!

Think of an extremely hilarious situation.
Think of an extremely absurd action that you would DO TO YOURSELF that will make you laugh non-stop for at least a minute of more.

Think!
Think Hard!

If you are NOT laughing yet...you are failing this test!
*laugh*

Once you get it, all you need to do is think of that hilarious situation, do 'that' action to yourself whenever you have all those 'D' moments and Whoo-Hoo! Your 'right' mood is back on track!

Sound too simple? Too out of the mind?
Guess what?
Life was meant to be SIMPLE before Adam ate the apple, isn't it?
It was MAN who always complicate things and make a mountain out of a mole hill.
*wink*

I find it really hard to bring my spirit down after knowing "Calling Tokyo... Calling Tokyo..."
*huge fat laugh*

This is a 'secret' between me and everyone on the first day of Unleash the Power Within.
Yes Mark?
Yes Ming?

How to have a 'D' moment now that we know about "Calling Tokyo... Calling Tokyo..."
*huge fat laugh* again!!!

So go! Your life can be changed for the better.... happier....
When you are bright and chirpy... your mind thinks better and you'll be surprise that after that hilarious laugh, you have the SOLUTION to your problem.... any problem!

Go!
Get your life change!

Cheers!!!

Mark, Ming.... "Calling Tokyo....Calling Tokyo....."
*HUGE FAT LAUGH*....

Unleash the Power Within - Fire Baptism

That was what I called it on the first day.

The main thing that struck me was everyone is empowered with CHOICES. Though many KNOWS this truth, but hardly anyone choose what truly makes them fulfilled. Many have thoughts that discourage, dis-empower and many didn't know that 'sacrificing' is NOT the key to happiness. One have to know your own value system and in-line it with your belief system. Often they contradicts.

Mine definitely did. When you can see your 'truth' staring back at you, you can better know how to straighten things out.

Thinking that one's sacrifice will be appreciated. Many 'big egoistic talkers' say "One should not EXPECT rewards when one has given or sacrificed for any other." Such are liars.

Everyone on earth is created to love and be loved. When one has given and not appreciated by the receiver, be honest, don't your heart cringed?
Yes, minutes later, hours later or even days later, one 'psycho' yourself out of that awful feeling and start making excuses or I would prefer to call them 'stories' to lift oneself OUT of that awful feeling of not being loved, not being appreciated.

Throughout the 4 days, I have received many gifts, some of which will stay with me for life, some of which I have yet to experience.

Some of my friends asked, "Why do you need to walk on fire?" The answer is simple. It is a test of your state of mind. How strong is your state of mind? How focused are you in doing what you want?

There is only ONE THING on earth that stops everyone from being the person they truly want to be. There is never a point whereby a person would say, "Yes, I am happy with what I have and I want no more." Such person who doesn't seek growth, dies. There is ALWAYS something that the person wants more in his or her life.

So what is truly stopping everyone?
FEAR.

Many run away from feeling fear, hence they will never progress. Others choose to fight fear, in the end they got tired and hurt. So what's the solution?
DANCE WITH YOUR FEAR.

Move with your fear and before long, 'fear' becomes tired, because it has no power over you already. When you dance with your fear, you turn it into POWER! And with that power, you can do anything and EVERYTHING!

Before we stepped out of the seminar hall to put what we have learned into action, many have already let fear won the battle. They sat down. They did not even step out of the hall. They chose not to go through it.

Some were really pumped up. Very confident that they can and will achieve. But when they were nearing the coals, they fled. Literally, running back to the air-conditioned room. They gave up.

But majority, went for it. Even the oldest participant, age 112, Auntie Teresa, she went for it. She came specially for this and no fear could stop her. *Applause*



Some had blisters after the walk. Some didn't. Its all about the state of mind when you were walking through the fire. Did you lose your focus when you were walking? Instead of focusing on getting across, one chose to focus on the heat, the pain on the skin, the sharp coals.

I had blisters. My buddy had blisters too. No excuses. Simply a lack of focus when we were on it. So there is a lot to learn about ourselves.

I Am On My Way

Yes! Yes! Yes!
I am perfectly well for the Big Anthony Robbins 4-FULL Day Seminar tomorrow!!!
Yippee!!!

I am so excited, it feels a little like the day before my wedding! *laugh*

Not only because I am going to have my life changed for the better again, but that tomorrow is FIRE WALKING day!!!

Of all the 4 days, tomorrow is THE DAY that I have been waiting for. To be able to walk on fire, I'll be invincible after that!!!

But before all the excitement I must start digging for my coupons, 'cos from my experience, there will not be enough time to buy food during the 40 minute breaks. Sing Expo, with its limited number of eateries and to accommodate more than 5000 people in that short time is just impossible.

I would be lucky if I can find Starbucks coupons.... *giggle* Anyway I will out of the house when the kids are napping to shop for small snacks to bring there for the next 4 days.

Whoo-hoo!!!

Have a Great Day everyone! *wink*

My Only Motivation...

My ticket for the long awaited Anthony Robbins Seminar has finally reached my hands.

Some of you have asked, "What's keeping you so strong throughout this week?"

Its this!

Going to his seminar is THE reason why I refused to fall sick. That's some pretty strong mind power eh? *giggle*

I have been telling myself. I MUST STAY HEALTHY, so that I can GO to his seminar. One year ago, his seminar took away my fear in driving. Imagine, if I didn't go for it last year. I wouldn't have been able to drive my boys to the polyclinic.

Carrying them all the way there would be out of the question; Or worse, wasting money by paying an absurd amount to the taxi driver just for a 5mins drive? Sorry, ever since the price of the taxi fares changed 3 years ago, I have self-banned myself from taking taxi.

So, this man means a lot to me. I have fears I had long wished to get rid off. Hence, I NEED, I MUST, I HAVE TO go.... next week....

The doctors said the 'madness' will end in 7 days. But LOOK AT THE SITUATION NOW! Today IS the 7th day and I can hardly see silver linings.....

I AM GOING!!!

Last year, I went for Anthony Robbins's 'Unlimited Power', in which I got rid of my years of fear in driving.
This year I'm going for his 'Unleash the Power Within'. So what fear am I going to get rid of this time? *wink*

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To live up to my title of 'Seminar Queen'. I am not forgetting T. Harv Eker's Millionaire Mind Intensive Seminar, which I SHOULD have attended last month in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. All thanks to H1N1, I had to prolong my wait.
I saw Allan's undeniable change (for the better, of cos) after attending it last November, I just can't wait to go! Rain or Shine, I'll be there! *humph*

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