Well, that is because we are wired differently up there (brains).
Just like the post, which I shared last year, "A Powerful 2hours to Fix Your Marriage." , women or men are really NOT difficult to understand.
The crucial point is did you take TIME to understand?
Hubby understands me very well.
Sometimes, TOO MUCH!
*laugh*
Even when I want to give him a surprise, he knows it before its revealed.
Maybe my acting skills REALLY NEED IMPROVEMENT!
He is a man and I'm a woman.
We understand each other.
Simply because we COMMUNICATE!
Not Talk!
Not Hear!
We Speak to be Understood
and Listen to Understand.
During the dating period and the first few years of marriage, there were misunderstandings.
Time was the issue.
We hardly have time together.
Mostly on the phone.
After we began our retail business, we had each other 24/7 almost!
That was when REAL communication began.
We learned each other's habits and TRIGGER POINTS.
We learned how far we can stretch each other's patience.
We learned what made each other happy, laugh, satisfied.
We learned....
Marriage does not end after the marriage vow was taken in the wedding suit/gown.
Marriage is a learning process that begins right after that.
Seriously,
if you tell me that you do not really understand your spouse (anymore),
check how many hours do you spend with him/her.
That is the biggest clue to your issue.
Some people probably find it WAY too hard to LEARN to understand women and hence the invention of :-------
My first response was "Seriously?!"
We are humans!!!!
Not robots!!!
Why do we need technology or devices to help us understand our Loved Ones?!
We Need Time and HEART!!!!
Not some funny gadget!
*eyes rolled*
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